RELATIONSHIPS;
THE MYTH & THE
TRUTH by Iriana Yoshara
We are each a spark of Light, an extension of the Source. That spark became a beam that contains all that we are. The beam extends to our Physical Bodies. Within all of us is the knowledge and energy of who and what we are. There is no separation between the Source and what we recognize as self. Each of the sparks connects to the whole, to Source.
The human self has an agenda that disconnected it from the Oneness. It believes that it is separate and apart from the whole. This belief system is the cause of all the pain, suffering and dysfunction in what appears to be our chaotic existence. We have been programmed to search for ourselves in others. We have named this dynamic “relationship.” That is the illusion we have deemed reality. Our hypnotized selves believe we are only human and not Divine. We continue to seek our Sacredness. We look for it everywhere. . We look in for it in our families, our work and most of all in our romanticized vision of relationships.
Then one day we see the reflection of our Divinity in another’s eyes. We then think we have finally found it. Love! There it is reflected back to us in the eyes of another. Thank you God. Now we are whole and complete. We never have to be alone again. The “other” becomes our Savior. They see the truth of our real self. That is what we have been searching for. Now life has meaning, purpose and direction. Now we are hooked. We need that person, our Savior. Without them we will perish.
What do we do with that energy and emotion of that dynamic? If the “relationship” comes to an end, we wonder how we are going to survive. Even when it is ongoing and our partner goes a little to the left or a little to the right; our world looks like it is crumbling or falling apart. We go into deep despair and fear. The illusion tells us will be separate and apart without love in our lives ever again. It screams and continually increases in volume if we don’t feed it more illusion. “Will they come back to me? That is the big question. If they do, I will be okay again. I will be fixed.”
This is as deadly an addiction as heroin. In some ways it is worse because it is socially acceptable. Our society has created a deadly illusion. It feeds the addiction of romance as the highest possible way to feel good about self. It tells us that if we are in a relationship we are okay. We feel physically and socially acceptable. We never have to be alone again. Now we fit in and won’t be criticized or scorned. No longer do we have to deal with fear or the feelings of isolation and not belonging. We are finally validated. The fears may still haunt us in the Dream State, but our conscious mind feels safe at last.
As we heal our consciousness and release the hypnotic state on a cellular level, we begin to see the Truth. The saying “the truth shall set you free” is one of the most profound statements on the Planet. We learn, and then know that God the Creator made us whole and complete. We have returned to Earth with a primary need to heal and reconnect to the Oneness that we originated from. It is not an easy task, but we were never told it would be. We live it each day; we listen to our inner guidance, each day. Then moment to moment we see the healing take place. The programming has been dominating our cells, our consciousness for eons. We now have the opportunity to refocus and reenergize ourselves on all levels. We make the choice to open ourselves to the True Love that we were meant to receive.
There are many wonderful Spiritual Teachers, Healers, Activators, Coaches, Energy Workers, Body Workers and more, that are available to share in our process. The energy that has been diffused by our looking outside ourselves for validation and support can be redirected. It can be used to embrace our Higher Energies and reconnect to the Oneness. The joy we seek can only come from within. When we share it with others seekers on the Path it is amplified and we are able to dance to the music of the Angels together. Thank you.
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