This Month Relationship CoachingDear Coach Jeff, I have been married for 6 years. When I met my husband, things were really good, he treated me well and we fell in love. We dated for almost 2 years before we got married. Once we were married things changed quickly. He does not treat me with respect. He accuses me of cheating on him. Sex seems to be everywhere but our house. We have lost that sparkle in the bedroom. Any suggestions? Eve T. Dear Eve, I am so glad you wrote to me asking for help. Too many couples wait till it is too late to ask for help. Since I have not discussed this in detail with you, I can only give you some general relationship coaching advice. Relationships can grow old and stale quickly. They need to be nurtured and kept fresh and alive. Men need a reason to work on their relationships. Some men do this because they are appreciative to spend their life with a wonderful and beautiful person. Other men treat their spouse with love and respect because the spouse reciprocates the love and respect. Unfortunately, others take their spouses for granted and treat them in a way that is unacceptable to their partner. I would like you to think about the underlying dynamic in your relationship. Could it be he feels that you don't return the love and respect? Could it be you have taken him for granted? Could it be he does not appreciate you? Click here to read the 5 coaching suggestions. |
